Showing posts with label humanity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humanity. Show all posts

Friday, March 06, 2015

India's Daughter, Mother, Sister or Woman

I watched the video and was shocked. First of all I don’t know the reason why Indian government banned it but in my point of view it an unbiased analysis of the whole situation from the rape case to Indian culture and women’s roll it Indian culture. It was just series of facts and interview. I ask everyone to give one hour of your time to this video. Watching this video a series of “what if” occurred to me.
What if the while making the law during the construction of constitution women and week were given extra care and protection?
What if women’s all over the world have protested for injustice at the very beginning when it all started?
What if law was already strong and properly influenced?
What if not a single criminal was allowed to get away from the very start?
What if the court wasn’t biased toward the rich and powerful?
What if the education was given equally to everyone?
What If sex education was made an important and necessary part of curriculum?
What if Indian society was not so blind by a myth that it’s so great and ideal?
What if instead of holding on to old and rotten thoughts we had accepted that the world has changed?
What if government was able to provide good facilities to everyone so that an eleven year old boy doesn’t have to run from home and become a seventeen year old rapist?
What if every child boy or a girl brought up equally?
There are a lot of what if in my mind right now. One thing remain the same. At some point of life somehow a man intentionally on unintentionally ill-treated a women. I know I have. I admit it and I apologies for it. But when a man who is already in death row for rape and murder doesn’t seems to have any regrets. It’s a horrible situation. He said all he did was to teach the girl a lesson. That women should not wear a certain type of clothing’s they should not go out of house after a certain time. We people of India talk about so proudly of our culture our heritage. Well all your culture have done for society is keep people from changing and keep half of the population in misery. I read two article on same day one was about vishwa hindu parishad or the VHP announcing that they won’t let girls wear jeans and make dupatta necessary for every college and school. And on the other article Pope decide to help children slaves to child labor. I gave this example because Indians have habit of blaming influence of western culture. The truth is we don’t know anything about them. When even the lawyer of the both side of the case talk same way as the rapist. And one has guts to say that he would publicly burn his daughter alive if she doesn’t follow the so called Indian tradition. Why are people like this have some say in society. Why aren’t they punished for talking like this on public? So that no one will dare speak like this in public. The right time for change was the first time a man try to molest a woman. now its too late but we still have to change.
Who asked these people to put their honor in a woman virginity? As all human being a woman should decide what she want to do, when she should get married, to whom she should get married,  what she should were, when and with whom she should sleep with it has to be her and her choice only. What other could do is suggest. But the last decisions should be her. Everyone stop forcing your methods your choices on other everyone is free. Everyone has right to be free.
All banning the video will do is stop people from talking about all these issues.
you can watch and download the documentary India's daughter here 



Monday, January 12, 2015

Being Human

People really need to accept their emotions. Staying calm or angry or scared or totally emotionless doesn't make some one human. Being human is not just about one emotion. Its about a bunch of them. Human are suppose to be angry they are suppose to be scared. By saying you don't feel anger, fear or love, you are saying you are not complete human. Being human is about feeling every emotions. Learn to accept them. Learn to analysis the situation and let the right emotion flow. Anger is a considered a bad emotion what if situation demand anger. Emotions are not good and bad. Its how you behave with them. Lack of control of emotion is what start conflict, crime, bitterness between people. Lack of control of emotions of a king could start a war. While a little control and acceptance could stop big tragedy. Thinking before doing anything. Sometimes saying sorry. And control over emotion. Is what make a person humble polite great and above all a great human being. So don't be a good man or woman. Don't be a good Hindu, Muslim, or Christan. Be a good human first. Put humanity before everything. Before everything else be a good Human.

Friday, January 09, 2015

France terrorist attack

The whole world is talking about the terrorist attack on France magazine Charlie Hebdo. not going in details of the whole incident i think few thing need to be said. That what happen to the world. where religion is kept above humanity. One thing i believe that whatever the reason the wrong cant be justified. Yes may be a few cartoon might not be hurtful to some people or a lot of people but what kind of society is that where a piece of paper is more important than life of another human and even after that an Indian politician has curtsy to say that he is ready to give a very big price to the attackers. if world has so little regard for human life then its a waste to live in world like this. i don't know much about the any religion but i don't think that any religion could justify killing. how hard is it to keep peace. it cant be so hard you just have to avoid any kind of fight. how difficult it could be. but still it the hardest thing to achieve.